Dating websites for everyone
They see me as a slightly older contemporary, as one of their peers.Being gay, if I was cursed to appear anywhere near my chronological age, I'd probably end it here and now r46 and you will be 45 on your birthday- It changes nothing and when you are 55 you will look 45-.Either you pony up with the cash, or settle for some schlub with a daddy complex.Otherwise, date someone your own age (I know, God forbid).[quote]I am most definitely not looking to be a sugar daddy or any kind of daddy for that matter.[quote]...preferably one that isn't promoting a fetish, like silver daddy or bears, etc.?
When I finally tell them the truth--that I'm old enough to be their father--they don't really care. It's a great thing not to look your age in the gay world, and I'm going to milk my great genetics as long as I can.I feel very fortunate because I've found someone who's mature, responsible, dependable, and considerate.I, and others my age who are like me, find those qualities very attractive, and an older man is likelier to possess them.I know lots of guys my age (40s) who are hung up on the idea that they want a 20-something boyfriend.It's just not a reasonable demand..when I dig deeper I see that they are stunted emotionally in some way, and never had that 'perfect boyfriend' when THEY were in their 20's..can't move on from that until they get some young twink to fall in love with them. I meant to add that hooking up with younger guys is a whole 'nother story.